There's a guy in one of my classes that I'm completely diggin' on. His name is Aaron. We sit by each other and we joke and flirt practically the whole lesson. I find this kid incredibly attractive, in a sort of dorky way. I dig dorky guys. And I like the sweaters he wears. I really want to spend time with him outside of class, but that requires exchanging number and getting him to ask me to do something.
I've made the decision this semester that I don't want to be the one to ask for someone's number. I don't want to be that kind of girl. It's just so hard at BYU-Idaho, where there's a plethora of girls who have no problem being that girl! I was with a friend last night and he said, "Girls asking boys on dates? Yeah, that's weird." I'm terrified of meeting someone I really want to get to know, not being patient, then screw everything up by being too forward.
So here's the deal with Aaron. I called up Aiden and asked him his advice on how to get Aaron to ask for my number. Aiden said I need to come up with some sort of activity, but one without a set date. I'm supposed to invite him to the activity and hopefully he'll offer up his number or ask for mine. I'm not convinced it's going to work, but I'm think I'm going to try it. It's a round-about way of getting the kid's number without being one of those pushy, forward girls.
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