The Vivint (formerly APX) dance party. The place where BYU-Idaho students go to get their freak on. This semester kick off party used to take place at Beaver Dick, but it has since moved to a couple different locations throughout the semesters, landing it this semester at the Vivint building right on Main street in Rexburg.
I showed up about an hour into the shindig and it was already pretty warm in there. I stepped outside about an hour later and when I walked back inside, I was hit by a wall of heat and perspiration. There wasn't a single person in that whole room who wasn't dripping with sweat. It's that kind of low light, super hot environment that encourages us BYUI kids to get down and dirty, touching everyone in the way.
I like dancing. I like dancing around in a circle like we did when we were younger at stake dances, I like dancing up on my girlfriends. I even like the occasional grind up on some dude. It's fun, it's pretty harmless, it's just a way to groove with the music and -literally- let some steam off. That being said, HOLY COW. There were some people having full on dry sex at the vivint party. No shame, no trying to hide it, getting all up and nasty on each other right there in front of everyone. Don't you think that's a little much?
I was with a couple girlfriends dancing around the floor, weaving our way into the center and then out. At one point this guy comes up behind me and starts dancing. No biggie, it was kinda fun even if he didn't have an ounce of rhythm in his body. He grabbed my hands and was trying to lead me around, in his non-rhythmic way, and it started getting less fun. Then he licked my neck. My sweaty, gross neck. I had hardly seen the guys face (it was pretty dark in there) and he was trying to tongue my neck. With some expert maneuvering, me and the ladies got out of the middle and lurked towards the back avoiding the neck-licker.
I suppose it's my fault for being willing to get down and dance with practically any guy who wanted to, but I have a little pride and I definitely have some limits. Neck-licker crossed them. I'll probably brave another dance party or two, but I'll be more choosy about who I dance with.
Also, would it be too much to ask for an outside dance party? Despite being forever far away, at least Beaver Dick didn't leave everyone with stagnant sweat air for everyone to breathe in.
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Monday, July 4, 2011
I wasn't quite finished with that...
I threw a party recently. It was a dance party, I invited everyone and they invited all their friends. It was one huge mother effing dance party. As far as the dancing goes, it was pretty tame; all my friends are LDS and don't really do the whole dirty dancing thing. The most raunch it got was a couple of us girls all dancing up on each other to make the boys drool. Well, it wasn't really to make them drool, but we know they did anyway.
Daniel showed up, being one of the first times I've seen him in a long time. We've seen each other at institute and some firesides, but he's been pretty scarce. It doesn't help that we live a good 25 minutes apart and are in different stakes. Holy. Smokes. I don't know what was done differently, but Daniel looked super good. He had on an excellent blue shirt and his hair was slightly done, but not overly stuffed with product (Yes, Aiden, it's called Product) and he just looked well put together. I was slightly dazzled by his ravishingly good looks.
Half way through the party I get a text from Daniel. Conversation went as follows:
Daniel: Sigh a man without isn't a man at all
Leslie: Huh?
Daniel: Kiss me
Leslie: Hahaha, you're in a room full of people.
Daniel: Well that is a shame. I donno where to go.
Leslie: Go out in the front yard on the side of the garage
He went, I snuck out the side door in the garage. He grabbed me, pushed me against the side of the house and kissed me nice and hard. One kiss turned into several, which ended up being a full on standing make out. I don't know if I've mentioned this before, but Daniel is a really good kisser. He gives those type of kisses that don't involve so much tongue that you're practically drowning in the other person's saliva, but just the right amount and they last just long enough. I love kissing him....except when he's trying to stick his hands down my pants.
I'm pretty self conscious about my body (what girl isn't?) and I had just been dancing around a lot, so I was kind of sweaty and Daniel tried to get his hands under my clothes just a little. Boom, shot down! I can get scandalous but I don't let things get crazy. We only made out for about fifteen minutes before heading back inside. It was a good fifteen minutes, though. It kept me busy while Chase decided to vacate the party with some chick.
In a way I feel slightly stupid for allowing myself to give into Daniel's request so easily, but at the same time, we're using each other equally. We both just want a little lip lovin' and know we enjoy the other. For the meantime, I can dig it.
Daniel showed up, being one of the first times I've seen him in a long time. We've seen each other at institute and some firesides, but he's been pretty scarce. It doesn't help that we live a good 25 minutes apart and are in different stakes. Holy. Smokes. I don't know what was done differently, but Daniel looked super good. He had on an excellent blue shirt and his hair was slightly done, but not overly stuffed with product (Yes, Aiden, it's called Product) and he just looked well put together. I was slightly dazzled by his ravishingly good looks.
Half way through the party I get a text from Daniel. Conversation went as follows:
Daniel: Sigh a man without isn't a man at all
Leslie: Huh?
Daniel: Kiss me
Leslie: Hahaha, you're in a room full of people.
Daniel: Well that is a shame. I donno where to go.
Leslie: Go out in the front yard on the side of the garage
He went, I snuck out the side door in the garage. He grabbed me, pushed me against the side of the house and kissed me nice and hard. One kiss turned into several, which ended up being a full on standing make out. I don't know if I've mentioned this before, but Daniel is a really good kisser. He gives those type of kisses that don't involve so much tongue that you're practically drowning in the other person's saliva, but just the right amount and they last just long enough. I love kissing him....except when he's trying to stick his hands down my pants.
I'm pretty self conscious about my body (what girl isn't?) and I had just been dancing around a lot, so I was kind of sweaty and Daniel tried to get his hands under my clothes just a little. Boom, shot down! I can get scandalous but I don't let things get crazy. We only made out for about fifteen minutes before heading back inside. It was a good fifteen minutes, though. It kept me busy while Chase decided to vacate the party with some chick.
In a way I feel slightly stupid for allowing myself to give into Daniel's request so easily, but at the same time, we're using each other equally. We both just want a little lip lovin' and know we enjoy the other. For the meantime, I can dig it.
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